I’ve been doing this thing lately, where - if I want something, I ask for it. It’s been working out pretty well.
Oh, and I’ve been trying to say “yes” more often, and that it’s okay to be choosey about what to say “yes” to. I learned if you do everything - you’re unhappy; if you do nothing - you’re unhappy. So I guess being choosey is next on the list of things to try.
So far good things have come of it - things like: double date bacon night with my bf and hers, scheduling lady time during ‘our weekends’ without any problem, making smart money choices without spending to please and then regretting, and saying yes to hanging out with friends means you actually get to hang out with your friends - imagine that!
Although there’s been some set backs - I think progress is being made.